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Attitude Vs Aptitude

hmm, I always thought that Aptitude is more important than Attitude... I belived that Attitude is just but a conviction, a feeling. But Aptitude is a talent.. a traits than can never be gain, thus i thought that it was more important.. But, one of my friend just told me sth then make me realised the importance of Attitude.

Well, my fren and I always play MMORPG games together.. I always wondered why were they better than me.. I always think that they had some 'secret training' or some sort of things that will help them to win. But I was wrong.. In games and even in life, a bad habit of mine is that I always try to look for a short cut.. But there is no short cut.. When I fail to find a short cut, i give up.. One reason, why i'm not as successful as I could have been is because I always gave up to easily.. Example, if I lose in a game, I'll quit... Instead of thinking that I should train harder to win, I gave up.. This remind me of a current skill that I realised I lack.. The skill of leading. Well, in my CG, ex-CG and even among my friends, I was never or rarely a leader. My role was always so support the leader. However, I was given a chance to lead yesterday. I screwed up. Its not because of the screw up that caused me to be disappointed. Its cause after failing to lead, I started to think that i wasn't cut out to lead.

Talent VS hardwork. Attitude VS Aptitude. I guess its time I change my point of view.

posted by Joseph @ 2:31 AM